{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","title":"心智成熟不是情緒變少，而是能選擇自己的反應","author_name":"Mendoi-chan","author_url":"https://mendoi-apps.com/zh-hant/about/","provider_name":"mendoi-apps","provider_url":"https://mendoi-apps.com/","cache_age":3600,"thumbnail_url":"https://mendoi-apps.com/og/site-zh-Hant.png","thumbnail_width":1200,"thumbnail_height":630,"html":"<blockquote class=\"mendoi-embed\" lang=\"zh-Hant\" cite=\"https://mendoi-apps.com/zh-hant/articles/allja-e7d24ac0e49b1fafe90d/\"><p><a href=\"https://mendoi-apps.com/zh-hant/articles/allja-e7d24ac0e49b1fafe90d/\">心智成熟不是情緒變少，而是能選擇自己的反應</a></p><p>「心智成長了，情緒就會變少。」「你會不再對別人抱有期待。」「你不再想去改變那個討厭的自己。」「器量大的人吃了虧也不吭聲。」這些說法裡有心理學上站得住腳的核心。但如果照單全收，就可能把無力感、認命、過度迎合，甚至對剝削的服從，都當成「成熟」。</p><footer>Mendoi-chan · <a href=\"https://mendoi-apps.com/zh-hant/\">mendoi-apps</a></footer></blockquote>","width":600,"height":240}