{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","title":"系列標題","author_name":"Mendoi-chan","author_url":"https://mendoi-apps.com/zh-hant/about/","provider_name":"mendoi-apps","provider_url":"https://mendoi-apps.com/","cache_age":3600,"thumbnail_url":"https://mendoi-apps.com/og/site-zh-Hant.png","thumbnail_width":1200,"thumbnail_height":630,"html":"<blockquote class=\"mendoi-embed\" lang=\"zh-Hant\" cite=\"https://mendoi-apps.com/zh-hant/articles/allja-99036bf3aaf21f6b60a2/\"><p><a href=\"https://mendoi-apps.com/zh-hant/articles/allja-99036bf3aaf21f6b60a2/\">系列標題</a></p><p>因此，婚前真正要看的不是「沒有缺點的人」，而是現實出現摩擦時，對方能否尊重你的NO、能否處理自己的焦慮而不是只靠限制你的行動來安心、是否用「正常人都會」「家人本來就應該」代替協商、能否在夫妻與原生家庭之間建立界線、能否在不滿還小時說出來，以及意見不同時能否協調。</p><footer>Mendoi-chan · <a href=\"https://mendoi-apps.com/zh-hant/\">mendoi-apps</a></footer></blockquote>","width":600,"height":240}