{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","title":"當外貌不再左右決定——從戀愛焦慮消失，到優先考慮契合度與生活設計","author_name":"Mendoi-chan","author_url":"https://mendoi-apps.com/zh-hant/about/","provider_name":"mendoi-apps","provider_url":"https://mendoi-apps.com/","cache_age":3600,"thumbnail_url":"https://mendoi-apps.com/og/site-zh-Hant.png","thumbnail_width":1200,"thumbnail_height":630,"html":"<blockquote class=\"mendoi-embed\" lang=\"zh-Hant\" cite=\"https://mendoi-apps.com/zh-hant/articles/allja-3be16a39d829bde2cbf3/\"><p><a href=\"https://mendoi-apps.com/zh-hant/articles/allja-3be16a39d829bde2cbf3/\">當外貌不再左右決定——從戀愛焦慮消失，到優先考慮契合度與生活設計</a></p><p>一個人過去可能只因與非常漂亮的人交談就感到緊張，後來卻能像面對普通人一樣自然、平穩地交流。這不一定代表戀愛感情衰退或情緒變得遲鈍。更可能的變化是：外貌吸引力、對方評價帶來的壓力，以及長期關係的契合度，已經能被當作三個不同問題處理。</p><footer>Mendoi-chan · <a href=\"https://mendoi-apps.com/zh-hant/\">mendoi-apps</a></footer></blockquote>","width":600,"height":240}