{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","title":"心智成熟不是情绪变少，而是能选择自己的反应","author_name":"Mendoi-chan","author_url":"https://mendoi-apps.com/zh-hans/about/","provider_name":"mendoi-apps","provider_url":"https://mendoi-apps.com/","cache_age":3600,"thumbnail_url":"https://mendoi-apps.com/og/site-zh-Hans.png","thumbnail_width":1200,"thumbnail_height":630,"html":"<blockquote class=\"mendoi-embed\" lang=\"zh-Hans\" cite=\"https://mendoi-apps.com/zh-hans/articles/allja-e7d24ac0e49b1fafe90d/\"><p><a href=\"https://mendoi-apps.com/zh-hans/articles/allja-e7d24ac0e49b1fafe90d/\">心智成熟不是情绪变少，而是能选择自己的反应</a></p><p>“心智成长了，情绪就会变少。”“你会不再对别人抱有期待。”“你不再想去改变那个讨厌的自己。”“格局大的人吃了亏也不吭声。”这些说法里有心理学上站得住脚的核心。但如果照单全收，就可能把无力感、认命、过度迎合，甚至对压榨的服从，都当成“成熟”。</p><footer>Mendoi-chan · <a href=\"https://mendoi-apps.com/zh-hans/\">mendoi-apps</a></footer></blockquote>","width":600,"height":240}