{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","title":"标题：“给我！”为什么可能让人活得更轻松——欲望直球、边界稳固的“飞鼠式”沟通","author_name":"Mendoi-chan","author_url":"https://mendoi-apps.com/zh-hans/about/","provider_name":"mendoi-apps","provider_url":"https://mendoi-apps.com/","cache_age":3600,"thumbnail_url":"https://mendoi-apps.com/og/site-zh-Hans.png","thumbnail_width":1200,"thumbnail_height":630,"html":"<blockquote class=\"mendoi-embed\" lang=\"zh-Hans\" cite=\"https://mendoi-apps.com/zh-hans/articles/allja-944fd1ead620cca7aa4e/\"><p><a href=\"https://mendoi-apps.com/zh-hans/articles/allja-944fd1ead620cca7aa4e/\">标题：“给我！”为什么可能让人活得更轻松——欲望直球、边界稳固的“飞鼠式”沟通</a></p><p>初次见面说“你好，今天天气真好”很安全。但正因为安全，它传递的信息也很少。对方知道你想开始聊天，却不一定知道你对“这个人”本身有兴趣，或者你正在积极地评价他/她。</p><footer>Mendoi-chan · <a href=\"https://mendoi-apps.com/zh-hans/\">mendoi-apps</a></footer></blockquote>","width":600,"height":240}