{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","title":"明明早就看出问题，为什么还是迟迟收不了场","author_name":"Mendoi-chan","author_url":"https://mendoi-apps.com/zh-hans/about/","provider_name":"mendoi-apps","provider_url":"https://mendoi-apps.com/","cache_age":3600,"thumbnail_url":"https://mendoi-apps.com/og/site-zh-Hans.png","thumbnail_width":1200,"thumbnail_height":630,"html":"<blockquote class=\"mendoi-embed\" lang=\"zh-Hans\" cite=\"https://mendoi-apps.com/zh-hans/articles/allja-63867a1fc23032472fc3/\"><p><a href=\"https://mendoi-apps.com/zh-hans/articles/allja-63867a1fc23032472fc3/\">明明早就看出问题，为什么还是迟迟收不了场</a></p><p>问题其实很早就看到了。对方和父母之间的界限、生活能否自立、将来的开销、怎么消化焦虑、工作方式上的限制，这些我很早就能说清楚。</p><footer>Mendoi-chan · <a href=\"https://mendoi-apps.com/zh-hans/\">mendoi-apps</a></footer></blockquote>","width":600,"height":240}