{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","title":"当外貌不再左右决定——从恋爱焦虑消失，到优先考虑契合度与生活设计","author_name":"Mendoi-chan","author_url":"https://mendoi-apps.com/zh-hans/about/","provider_name":"mendoi-apps","provider_url":"https://mendoi-apps.com/","cache_age":3600,"thumbnail_url":"https://mendoi-apps.com/og/site-zh-Hans.png","thumbnail_width":1200,"thumbnail_height":630,"html":"<blockquote class=\"mendoi-embed\" lang=\"zh-Hans\" cite=\"https://mendoi-apps.com/zh-hans/articles/allja-3be16a39d829bde2cbf3/\"><p><a href=\"https://mendoi-apps.com/zh-hans/articles/allja-3be16a39d829bde2cbf3/\">当外貌不再左右决定——从恋爱焦虑消失，到优先考虑契合度与生活设计</a></p><p>一个人过去可能仅仅因为与非常漂亮的人交谈就感到紧张，后来却能像面对普通人一样自然、平静地交流。这不一定意味着恋爱感情衰退或情绪变得迟钝。更可能的变化是：外貌吸引力、对方评价带来的压力，以及长期关系的契合度，已经能够被当作三个不同的问题处理。</p><footer>Mendoi-chan · <a href=\"https://mendoi-apps.com/zh-hans/\">mendoi-apps</a></footer></blockquote>","width":600,"height":240}